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BE GOOD, SMILE PRETTY is a first-person documentary that tells the story of one daughter's struggle to know and grieve for the father she never knew, the father who died in Vietnam when she was three months old. By chronicling her journey of discovery, this film explores profound loss and the need to know, remember and mourn.

This intimate, revealing story also sheds light on the loss of the estimated 20,000 Americans whose fathers were killed in the Vietnam War and whose loss has been stigmatized and ignored. While there is nothing that will bring their fathers back and there is no quick fix for the grief they feel, they need permission to mourn their loss, to know their fathers and to tell their stories. With answers and understanding, they can heal.


"BE GOOD, SMILE PRETTY is long overdue. Although the healing continues for those of us who served in Vietnam, the process has yet to begin for those children orphaned by the casualties of that war."

"This film is an important memorial to all the American fathers who were killed in the Vietnam War and also will shine much-needed light on the heavy burdens borne by their surviving children."



"BE GOOD, SMILE PRETTY will be an important legacy to remember the casualties of the Vietnam War and those they left behind. The need to remember is profound for a country which too soon forgets those who serve her. From the difficult and extraordinary circumstances of Vietnam, some stories of courage have been neglected. The courage of which I speak is the courage of those...who grew up without a parent because of the devotion to duty and country of their father..."

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